Talk on Marriage!!

So for a while I was thinking about marriage.  Yet, until I find Mr. Right I want to continue being an industrious, independent and confident single who has strong ethics and morals, which is why I have closed the book for now on marriage for me and rather opened my heart to the wisdom and chastity of it.  We went out to eat today @ Steak N Shake and I saw a pregnant woman with her 2 kids and husband.  Husband looked a bit tired from lack of sleep and it reminded me of that Country song that talks about the birth of his own child and how he saw God that day.  If you think it, truly everyday is a miracle and especially when a young man or woman get to the point of marriage or chidbirth.  So in all our excitement in our achievements in life this is what I salvaged from the article on marriage.

"As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoked at the right time for it."

-Proverbs 25:11

So timing is everything and having a sanctified marriage where both individuals respect the other and work together in communication is when the 3-fold cord benefits the husband and wife causing them to have fruitage of the spirit and reap wonderful rich and deep rewards!

Using the insight and wisdom from the scriptures cause the fight to be resolved because it is no longer about which party is right or wrong but rather the Godly principles that benefit and protect them. 

Cultivating humility allows room for apologies and resolving the problems in a relationship rather than furthering them in an endless argument that would tear the two people apart.  "Do Not Tear Apart What God Has Yoked Together." Matthew 19:6

Since a man initially wants to solve the problem at hand while a woman just wants to talk about her feelings about what happens in their relationship, there are a lot of differences in needs in their marriage bond.  For instance, backgrounds differ and personality traits may cause difficulties to arise.  Yet, the wise one builds his household in wisdom while the foolish one breaks and tears it down.  When difficulties arise the man and woman once married must stick together and leave their mother and father and must start a life of their own growing together in an expanse of years in love.

So there ya go.  The wisdom you need to grow in love.  And if you want to do things right? 
Well, like Beyonce says, ...."Put a ring on it."